The Things
Dec. 5th, 2025 07:57 amAfter work I finished reading Memoirs of a Beatnik by Diane di Prima. It was my book for this season's Spousal Book Club and I enjoyed it quite a lot. Then at night we went up to the Pink Palace to see The Thing on the giant screen (and I just found out that it's not technically imax anymore, I guess the screen is still the screen but the projector was replaced with another brand when they upgraded to digital over a decade ago...but that's just branding...it was still The Thing on a GIANT-ass screen). Anyway, that ruled, I guess it'd been longer since I've seen it than I realized and I've never seen it like that before.
Mary Beth and I did our Fresh Market grocery run during my lunch break. We picked up a little treat of madeleines and we had them with our afternoon tea and, being Proustian aside (or is it actually Proustian if I don't have any associated childhood memories to evoke?), they were very delicious together. Then after dinner I went over to my parents' house to pick up Mary Beth's aaa card (there's always a convoluted thing of them coming, getting lost, found, lost again, etc.; after being initially lost my card was found and I picked it up at Thanksgiving but hers turned up a few days later). My sister had also found these cross-stitches in frames from when I was born. One has my name and a rabbit hanging out in a bed or something and the other has my name and dob and weight and a little baby. So, fun to see these old things. Then back at home I watched a little bit of Two Fat Ladies with Mary Beth on her laptop while she did her nails.
Boring Stuff
Dec. 3rd, 2025 07:54 amHad a pretty chill day yesterday. Except for work, which was busy as there was a deployment that was taking forever and had some small things forgotten and some small issues but the infrastructure team has gotten so red-tape-heavy that it was pulling teeth to get the few small things that weren't called out beforehand taken care of as well. And that's really about it for now.
Shirt Talk
Dec. 2nd, 2025 07:55 amI finally got around to putting those "I saw Robert Traxler perform..." shirts up on bandcamp. So maybe one will sell there one day. In a related note (probably what reminded me of the former, really), I went and mailed out a Memphis Concrète shirt someone had ordered on bandcamp, so went up to the post office after work and did that. Then at night Mary Beth and I did our Superlo grocery run. That's about it.
Mary Beth and I walked over to Hattiloo to see If Scrooge Was a Brother (which as you may expect, is exactly as the title describes). It was pretty good though there was a bit of a religious/Bible-fixation in it (which it felt like the play was sending up in the Christmas Future part, but then it went back to an embrace at the end). Then later I finished reading Goodbye, Columbus and Five Short Stories by Philip Roth and it was quite good. That's about it for now.
Mary Beth and I went up to the Brooks in the afternoon. The main exhibit was of quilts by African Americans. That was cool. At the end there was a little interactive thing where you could make your own little pattern on a square of paper with fabrics but the scissors I had were way too dull and I was just hacking away at it (when I was almost done I tried another pair of scissors and they were much better! oh well, my thing would have looked dumb no matter what!). Then we went through the rest of the museum. Not a whole lot else, though late at night we watched Golden Girls while eating cheese dip.
Ones and Ones
Nov. 29th, 2025 11:05 amIn the morning, I watched The Shrouds, the newer Cronenberg movie. It's good, has a very weird vibe that's very much in line with his other recent one Crimes of the Future (beyond extremely stilted dialog and acting, etc.), but it kinda works in that it makes up its own sub-niche genre, even within Cronenberg's works. Then in the evening, Mary Beth and I went up to the Park and walked around and we walked around the forest and the pond and stuff. At night I started working on this composition idea I have for a future electroacoustic thing. I'm just starting to get a little bit down. We'll see how it all goes. I got up today to go to the bank and I went and got a fuck ton of ones. And there ya have it.
Thanksgiving and Stuff
Nov. 28th, 2025 08:53 amIn the afternoon, Mary Beth and I went over to my parents' house for Thanksgiving. We got there about 2:30 and then proceeded to eat "dinner" right away. Dad was there and Christina and the boys, though Jason didn't stay very long before being picked up by his dad. We ate and hung out there a while and it was Thanksgiving. Now I'm having my dumb workday, but it shouldn't involve too much. Even figured I could sleep an hour later than usual. So, anyway.
New Old Forest
Nov. 27th, 2025 09:31 amGot off work early for it being the day before the holiday. So in the mid-afternoon Mary Beth and I walked up to the Park and then we walked through the Old Forest. As we were about to come back out, we went and checked out the NEW trail...the part of the Forest that had been fenced in by the fuckin' Zoo finally got opened up again and the fence was taken down and there's a trail over in that part so we walked it and that's cool and stuff. Then we walked around the pond and then lay in the greensward for a bit as dusk settled in. Then we walked back home! We had a little mini-Thanksgiving dinner with some slowcooked turkey and cranberry sauce and pie. That's about it for now.
In the morning, I went back up to James Davis to have the issues looked at. The thing with the extra jacket was just that they'd left a pin in. He removed it and the fabric didn't look bunched up anymore and we tried it out and it was fine. But I had they lengthen the pants. They even did it while I was there in the store. It'd just be a little bit of a wait and I was already there. It was funny 'cuz I'd randomly got a last minute work meeting sent to me between checking my calendar before I left and getting to the store. But it worked out funny enough because I was able to get on the call while I was waiting for the tailoring to be done anyway. But I felt a little goofy being huddled in the corner of the back room of the store on the phone (it was an empty room and isolated so again, it did work out). Then later after work, Mary Beth and I went on another short walk around the neighborhood. So that was good. Oh, and I keep forgetting to mention that the other day (Monday), I made a dumb little list thing for the books I read back in 2005. So that's could be a fun way to waste one of your precious minutes!
During my lunch break I finished reading The Silent Cry by Kenzaburō Ōe and it was okay. After work I went back to James Davis to pick up my suit (and additional jacket) as it was supposed to be ready and all. On the way back I stopped by Kroger to pick up a few things. Anyway, okay so I get back home and after dinner try on the clothes again for Mary Beth to see and she is very unhappy with all of it. Though the suit says it's navy, it seems to be even darker than that and really just looks black on me (which I was incapable of telling by myself at the store). And the extra jacket that I thought was a lighter shade is only lighter than the suit and itself looks closer to a navy. So now we've spent way too much money (and time) on something that doesn't even look good. And to top it all off, that jacket looks like it wasn't even finished being altered on one shoulder (and the suit's pants are too short). I need to take it back which I will do soon. I thought it was going to look good when I got home but it's turning out to have been a pretty miserable experience.
Mary Beth and I went back out to Paradiso for some more MetOp, this time for Richard Strauss's Arabella. It's later than Salome and after he had gotten to where he was going so out there in dissonance and all, but it's still good and has quite a lot of the Strauss feeling still. Even the parts with traditional kind of waltz stuff has this dense layered and near-collage kind of effect. So yeah, that was fun and a nice four hour extravaganza. At night I worked some on my music-loading script. Something seems to have happened with the python discogs library I'm using (it's has a built-in backoff for requests when you hit the limit...I use it to download album art). It had been working forever but I ran it recently and I would get about ten images downloaded and it would hit a limit and then just start erroring out for the rest. This is only speculation, but while looking up the issue I was seeing things about their requests going through Cloudflare...so since there was a huge Cloudflare outage a few days ago, could it have been something changed with the way they're handling those errors or with the response structure, etc and that's broken the way the library processes them? I haven't seen anyone else reporting this issue at least not yet. But I just made my own, very non-optimal, backup solution to handle it when the library doesn't backoff correctly. Okay, boring stuff!
Got some cds in the mail: Anne Gillis: Archives Box 1983-2005 and Anne Gillis: Vhoysee (and I think they even came late the day before and were missed until the next day). Also a little later I got a package with a Diamanda Galás shirt with the cover of You Must Be Certain of the Devil. Alright! Then in the evening Mary Beth and I went to UofM to see a night of some Italian operettas. The first was Il Segreto di Susanna by Wolf-Ferrari and it was my favorite. The other two were both by Puccini: Suor Angelica and Gianni Schicchi (of those, the latter was my preference...classic comic-opera stuff of identity switching but with more of a base of black humor...the former was religious and sappily melodramatic). But it was a fun night with a lot of opera and now we're about to go out and possibly get an even bigger dose of opera!
Mary Beth and I went up to Crosstown for a screening of Tav Falco's movie The Urania Trilogy. Alex Greene and the Rolling Head Orchestra did a live score (didn't realize it until it was over but it was Jim Duckworth on guitar!). The movie to me was kinda if Guy Maddin was Mike McCarthy. It's done like it's an old silent film though there is some sound, usually not synchronized (but then towards the middle in part two some of the dialog does start being synchronized). There is some interesting stuff and it can be quite funny at times. It is probably a bit overly long. Though one funny incidental thing is that after the part two ended and the title for part three came up a WHOLE bunch of people got up and left, probably believing that the third part was going to be as long as the first two. But then the third part was like MAYBE five minutes and then it ended. (The abrupt end was a very amusing part.) After it was over we went upstairs to Art Bar and hung out for a little bit.
We did our Fresh Market run during my lunch break. Then after work I went back to James Davis to get fitted for my suit that finally came in after about a fuckin' month! But I got fitted and I also picked out a second jacket for non-suit jacket-wearing and was fitted for that and a couple of shirts. So in a bit, I'm bound to be very fancy.
How Do You Live?
Nov. 18th, 2025 08:01 amWe went back out to Paradiso once again and saw a screening of The Boy and the Heron. It was very good, probably one of my favorite Miyazaki movies now if not favorite (but I also haven't seen a huge chunk of his oeuvre either). I'm also reminded of something from the Coward play we went to on Sunday. This woman behind us had been talking a bit about reading the script while the actors were working on it or whatever, I guess she has something to do with the company. Then during the intermission she was saying what happens at the end of the movie adaptation and then it's like, gee, spoiler alert now! But then the play itself doesn't quite end that way (I mean, you could take it as implied in going in that direction but it's more ambiguous (in a comedic, not serious way)). Okay, that's it.
Mary Beth and I went out to the Tennessee Shakespeare Company to see Noël Coward's Blithe Spirit. It was another reading (they're part of a little series, we caught the first one with the Chekhov and this as the last one) and not a full-on play production. On the way home we stopped by Kroger for a few things they didn't have (or have enough of) when we recently went.